Don’t be distracted from the goal. There is only one goal to aim at, Jesus. He is the Way; you are on the paths of righteousness for His sake, not yours. Your goal should never be to get your way in any given situation. Your goal should the Way.
Jesus gave His life for you. Can you give your life for Him? He sacrificed everything temporarily. That’s what He asks of you. You need to temporarily give up your life. It is not your own. You don’t have rights. But He gives you His life forever, permanently. Then you will have all the rights of a child of the King.